My voice is devoid of emotion and my face is blank as I respond:
After my attack I developed this techinque for handling all the advice being thrown at me. How I should heal, how long it should take me to be over it, and even being told to not let this ruin my life.
It was the best response I could find. I felt it acknowledged that I heard what was said but also allowed little space for more advice to be offered to me.
I have found myself saying
A lot on the Appalachian Trail.
I had thought that there would be a lot more free spirits out here, but there is an abundance of control freaks out here. They want to control the weather, the trail, how fast other people hike, how fast they go, what gear others should have, etc
There is almost nothing out here that someone hasn’t titled themselves the director of. This hike is hard enough when you are a go with the flow type, thif must be excruciating for those trying to control every little thing that is happening.
Having Leo with my some how has marked me with a sign that says, “please come up and tell me how to care for my puppy” People will turn him over, touch him, and then tell me I shouldn’t have him out here. He should be at home chilling instead of outside hiking. Anyone who has actually spent time with this pup knows that he is an outdoor dog. He wants to be rolling around in leaves, chewing sticks, and walking the trail.
The next person who comes up to me and tells me what Leo shouldn’t or should be doing will get a firm